Dear RG,
I have tried these exercies before (without pills), jelqing/stretching/warm compresses/etc. and I definitely saw gains (1" in length and 0.5 in circumference). I was away from my girlfriend at the time, living alone, so I had no problem finding the privacy I needed to do this. When I saw my girlfriend 2 months later and we had sex she was shocked (unaware that I had been stretching). She meerly asked if I had gotten bigger. I had also been lifting weights and I said I thought the benefit came from that alone. She said to "keep it up".
Unfortunately I was in grad school at the time and I spent more time in the lab and less time continuing with the exercises. That was 3 years ago and I am about to get married to my new girlfriend. She has been around the block a couple times more than me, which shouldn't matter (and doesn't in the long run) but every guy wants to be "the best". She and I are currently living under the same roof as my parents and since one VERY close call when my mother nearly caught us having sex, we've been on hiatus. When we get married in September I would like to have an added present for her on our honeymoon to the Carribean. However, how do I find the time? I leave before her in the morning, and usually arrive after her in the evening. She works for a couple hours on Sunday when I am at home so that is ok, but I need to find 5 other days in the week to exercise.
The exercises I think take 25 to 35 minutes twice a day. I can manage hiding the pills either at work or wherever, but does anyone have recommendations for finding the time to exercise without letting your live-in-girlfriend/spouse knowing?
Time-Challenged in Chicago
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Dear Time,
I'm glad to hear that you've done this before and that you've seen gains. That gives you an edge that many others don't have: concrete proof that the whole process of penis enlargement actually works.
I can say that I know what you mean about not being able to find the time to do the exercises consistently. When I went through the experiment, I was (and still am) living with my girlfriend too and didn't want her to know. I wrote one post about my routine. I found that I had to fit it into my morning shower routine in order to hide it from her. The situation wasn't ideal and I probably could have gained more easily under ideal circumstances, but it still worked nonetheless.
Another thing is that you should be able to get away with only doing a routine that's 15 minutes long once a day for 5 days a week. 25 minutes twice a day sounds like a bit much. Ouch! You have to remember to rest in order to let your penis heal.
I would suggest that you find the time however you can. Come up with good credible excuses. You should be able to easily reach a bigger size by your honeymoon, especially if you also take the pills. And who knows, maybe even after you get married, you can come clean.